Don't lie to children so they can learn how to be honest.
Love children so they can learn to love.
Talk to the children so that they can learn to talk.
Listen to the children so that they can learn to listen.
Be patient with the children so that they can learn about patience.
Trust the children so that they can learn to trust each other.
Accept them as equals so that they can learn to be accepted as equals.
Love children unconditionally so that they too can learn about unconditional love.
Accept children as they are so that they can learn to be accepted as they are.
Believe in the boundless potential of children so they can learn to believe in their potential.
Take a sincere interest in the children's opinions so that they also learn that their opinions matter.
Take care, support, and fight for children so that they learn to care for, support and fight for another human beings.
Be kind to children so that they learn how to be kind to others.
Find time for children so they can learn that their personality is important and does matter.
Admire the children so they can learn how to be confident.
Share your personal experiences with the children to teach them about honesty and how to share their personal experiences with you.
Give children the freedom to choose within your care for them to teach them what is a free choice.
See
in children a unique personality to get children used to being
perceived as unique.
Do not compare children with other children, neither them as individuals, nor their achievements, in order to teach children that they are valuable as they are.
Do not criticize children harshly so you can teach them to learn from their mistakes, not to be afraid of them.
Do not punish children so that they do not learn to punish themselves.
Do not be cruel to children, so that they do not learn how to be cruel.
Show nobility and generosity to children so that they too learn about nobility and generosity.
Admit your mistakes to the children and apologize to them so that the children learn to admit their mistakes and apologize.
Be friends with the children so that they also learn about friendship.
Play with the children and show imagination to teach them what is creativity.
Read books with children so that they can learn to love books.
Do not shout at children or talk to them in anger so that they do not learn about aggression.
Respect children so that children learn to respect.
The personal example and actions of the adults are the best teacher for the child.
And lastly: the upbringing of children begins first with the upbringing of the adults.
(Elena S. Lyubenova)
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